tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36804534.post1557377497192524934..comments2021-03-27T18:19:58.067-06:00Comments on Aunt BeaN's Third Blog: a break from my previously scheduled breakBarbNhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12088366782915923507noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36804534.post-20504599106321142542014-02-16T06:47:59.182-07:002014-02-16T06:47:59.182-07:00What Karen said. Also, in my experience dealing wi...What Karen said. Also, in my experience dealing with some fairly public people with some fairly narcissistic entitlement tendencies, their reality can actually confuse you…their projections can make you doubt yourself. So if it is necessary to announce your truth in order to hold on to what you know to be true, I say go for it. If it's necessary to hold it inside to know it to be true, go forlora96https://www.blogger.com/profile/08171062741089674769noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36804534.post-9667307260549782112014-02-15T20:34:54.373-07:002014-02-15T20:34:54.373-07:00I'm getting an education from you and other Be...I'm getting an education from you and other Betties on this topic, which is profoundly enlightening. I hate like hell that it happened to you or to anyone. And my take away is that you survive and deal with it in various ways and there isn't really a "right" way to do that. So if your way is different than others, as long as it works for you, then go for it. KarenBhttp://karenb1963.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36804534.post-33953521322235622222014-02-15T19:16:00.660-07:002014-02-15T19:16:00.660-07:00One of the hardest things about being a survivor o...One of the hardest things about being a survivor of sexual abuse is having your version of reality challenged (either overtly or covertly). The feeling of vertigo I experience from that denial of reality has made me occasionally, 40+ years after the abuse, wonder if it really happened. I know it did; I can recall details that confirm my experience of the reality of the abuse. <br />I can Cheery-Ohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09027825286045547856noreply@blogger.com